Here's a fact. I don't exactly know how to roll on the field, or the so-called ways of life, or rather let's just say I don't know how things work between people. Life is sometimes not as easy as we thought it would be, unless we think it is. But when it's coupled with complex people, it's inevitable that even the most simplest person of all can be confused. Life can then be hard. Decision-making becomes harder, and then one thing leads to another, making life more complicated.
Complexity of people is obviously not the topic. It's out there, anywhere off the street, doesn't even have to be a counselor to see that, doesn't even take a good socializing skill to know what it really is. Everyone gets the bit taste of it. You and I, sad to admit, we are all complex, even those who strongly denies he is one will eventually become one too. That's the way it works, the way people survive through things.
I myself too, is surrounded by people who is complicated enough to make things complicated. Some people can be very nice but you just don't know how long will that last, is it because of true heart or is it just another manipulation for the benefit of others? What are they really up to? Unless you are very complicated yourself you won't realize it at once. On the other hand, some people can really be such a pain in the ass, making you feel as if it's the most unpleasant thing for you to work with or talk to, people whom you want to avoid as much as possible in life, and sometimes these are the people whom you can place your trust on, people whom you can choose to believe. You don't know really. The world out there is a combination and mixture of both.
You can see on the surface but what about the bottom of the sea? What can you expecting yourself to see? Can you make prediction, assumption or hypothesis? but how are these help?
None. You are on your own. Just blend in.
